why are women complicated

either ways

what do i do about this?

what do i do if my friend is cheating on his girlfriend who is my good friend?
i cant betray my friend and on the otherhand if his girlfriend finds out he's cheating on her n i knew all along.........., im really going down either ways what do i do?.

is Marriage Compulsory?

what is marriage?. Dictionary definition states that marriage is the union of a man and a woman. the bible said we should "go into the world and multiply", the bible went further in emphasizing that there shouldnt be any barren in his house, paul in his words in the new testament made his perception about marriage: "not compulsory!!", he made us understand the fact that if you can hold yourself its not neccesary, he also made his point clear that marriage is the only license to sex, the bible also describes sex in two instances which are sex as REPRODUCTION and sex as PLEASURE, which is the sin, adam and eve were not married, cain after barnishment from God also had a family in another land, marriage wasnt stressed, and infact who were the people cain went to meet, that nullifies the fact that adam and eve where the first humans existing, so back to the question:

1. what is marriage?
2. is marriage compulsory?
3. when is the right age for marriage?
4. how should a marriage be conducted?
5. what do you do, if you dont believe in the institution of marriage but also want sex?
6. is there a mr.right or a perfect lady out there?

self-employment an avenue to solving the problems in our economy

Unemployment has been a major problem of most developing countries. The International Labor Organization has defined unemployment as a situation where a large number of economically active populations are not employed, but are available and seeking for jobs. These include people who have lost their jobs and those who have voluntarily retired.
The pathetic situation on the unemployment is as a result of the inability to develop and manage the nation’s resources effectively and efficiently by channeling them to profitable investments that could bring about maximum economic benefits to the citizenry.
As it is widely believed that urban migration-when people move from rural areas to the cities for white-collar jobs or other reasons is one of the factors of unemployment, maladministration too contributes to the level of joblessness of our teeming youths. Other negative vices that contribute to the situation include extravagant expenditures, kleptomaniac tendencies of public officers, immunity clause which protects them from being convicted gross mismanagement of resources and unfavorable policies of various administrations in the country.
To some extent poverty is aggravated by unemployment which further leads to the high rate of crimes in our society like engagements of mostly youths in oil bunkering, yahoo- yahoo, armed robbery, kidnapping, drug addiction and trafficking. The females also while struggling to provide for the household without jobs, become depressed and resort to ugly trading in prostitution.
All these could be seen major problems of the rising level of social disorder and insecurity in the nation which tend to reduce the social status and self esteem of a person in particular and the country in general.
At this stage the poverty of the mind evades youths out there, vision impairment evolves out of frustration, vision-foresight for insight through hindsight, is the world’s greatest need. Imagine every rich and capable person in Lagos develops an investment that can provide jobs for at least a fifty people i.e. if a million rich or capable people develop this kind of investments 50 million people will not be unemployed, so what is our population in Lagos. Self-employment I wouldn’t say it’s the key, but it’s an avenue to alleviating poverty in the society today, so what is self-employment?